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Cancer is Just Another Diagnosis
I have decided that cancer is just a diagnosis, much like all the other ones I have lived through. In fact I took having arthritis much harder because it is chronic and debilitating. I am going to live through this and become stronger...and if I don't I will go live...
Love Hurts…Until You Realize A Different Definition
I am not shocked that it takes a diagnosis that can kill me that my siblings would finally reach out to me after so many years. I was given siblings that require more forgiving than I have time for. When they needed me, I gave my time, money and love but it was never...
I Have Cancer
I made two phone calls today. I had shared the news with my two best friends in their preferred way of communication; Messenger. I had thought it many times, cried about it too but those phone calls where I said the words brought me to hysterical tears. It doesn’t...
Book Review: The Soul of the Indian
I read this book yesterday. It only has 64 pages so I drank two cups of green tea with honey, from my friend Heike, to help with my allergies and digested the words in this book. The depth of the belief in God, or the Great Mystery, as their Higher Power, is enough to...
I am I and You are You
There should be a difference between our public and personal behaviors. There are things I do at home that I would never do in public. The same with public health guidelines and personal choices. We must own our behaviors and choices and stop being defensive, while...
Here and Now
This morning, for the first time in almost 2 weeks, I had the energy to lay Karen's clothes out for work, tidy up, make coffee and Karen's lunch (including scrubbing her lunch box), check email and try to get Karen out of bed in time to grab a real breakfast before...
Knowing is a Process
This article is based on my opinion as well as information I gained through web series I took part in in July of 2020 called LGBTQ+ Cultural Competency Workshop. This workshop was sponsored by Lambert House, Healing Bridge, PFLAG, PFLAG SW WA, Connect BG and...
Is Your Finger on the Trigger?
If you are living with a chronic physical or mental illness you understand the word: Trigger. It is important because once you know your triggers you can better protect yourself from episodes or flares. My main triggers are: angry people, fighting voices and being...
This Old Sweater
I am so angry and sad right now. I am thankful too. Chronic Illness is a bitch. She is ruthless and steals good things from people. I am angry because too many people don't have enough options. I am sad because people I love are losing things that are important to...
A Letter to a Younger Me – AKA 16 Things I Know…
Dear Younger Me (and anyone who wants to read this), I am writing this letter to you as a celebration. As I round the bend toward be alive 45 years, I realize how far I have come. I never thought I would live beyond 32 years old; I am not sure where I got that idea...
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